Calling other Model using relation

confusing title .. haha

model:post
$hasMany = 'Comment'

controller:post
$this->Comment->find('all'); <--- Wrong
$this->Post->Comment->find('all'); <--- right ..

just a mistake that i made ... o god.. never understand how cakephp work internally

Utter the words , with style

"cant you just tell me you are not going ?" , 1 sentence , thousand way to say it

by stressing some word , and using different tone can cause the different emotion fluctuate between 2 people talking.

"cant you JUST........  tell me you are not going ?" 
"CANT YOU JUST TELL ME YOU ARE NOT GOING ?" 
"cant you just tell me YOU~ are not going ?" 
"cant you just tell me you are NOT going ?"

I call this emotional colouring, we are colouring the word using our emotion. For example , the first sentence stress on "JUST", meaning that he really hope he had been informed about the absense
2nd sentence obviously meaning he is complete outrage
3rd sound like he is blaming the person more
emotional colouring are very hard topic to be discuss on written form, you have to feel the the emotion of the word , by listening to it. Believe me , its not an easy task to do.

we can even express the same idea , using different word.
- cant you just tell me you are not going ?
- why?
- ow .. why you not going , its gonna be fun
- what can be more important than my birthday party ?
- I really hope you can tell me why.

If combining this with the emotional colouring , you have 16 ways of asking the same question. Again its not an easy task to choose what word coming out of your mouth. Think before you speak is harder than it sound. Try to say a word calmly when you are angry, and you will feel it, most of the time , the best practice is not to speak at all to be secure , walk away.

Choosing the word , is not so that you can deceive other people, but you can express yourself more precisely. Your friend are not going to your party, and he is just inform you 1 hours before your party start.
If you are only curious why -  "why , are you busy or something ?"
if you don bother, but wan to hide the feeling - "too bad , tomorrow breakfast together ?"
if you are totally furious, but don wan to hurt your friendship - "how about you tell me earlier, so I can arrange it"
if he and done it time and time again and you decide enough is enough - "<insert any insult here>"


note: the idea above is a very experimental and yet to be proven , perhaps all the words are point to same idea and there's no emotional colouring thing.....

先撩者贱，打死无怨

如果有人去骚扰一只正在睡觉的熊，那么熊发狂起来断了人的手， 这件事如何解决呢？

简单，为伤者医疗，并给上同情，然后灭了那只熊，杀一儆百（有待验证）。

好了，那么为什么熊发狂了呢？因为本来在美梦里的他被扰醒了。为什么要弄醒他呢？因为刚好熊睡在路上，阻断了公路。

那么既然挡了路，就别想睡，既然睡不了，那只手就别想留着了。

合情合理。

既然有吵醒熊的勇气，那么干架一场是免不了了，堂堂正正来一回，但是熊人之战，谁败谁胜没啥好说就是了。

这个，问题倒是来了，如果狗咬了你，你打算趴下去咬回它？

那个，当然不是指不可以咬回它，但是如果因此受伤就别哭哭啼啼就是了。

但是如果人拿支枪来杀了熊，搞不好兄弟就要坐牢了，反正出了口气，值得了。

那么如果想不受伤，你倒是可以忍，百忍成金嘛。

不过忍多了就是懦夫了。你懂的，亚洲病夫之类的。

但是有句话，君子报仇十年未晚

如果你有耐心又有智慧，这个的确可以出口气又可以避免刀光剑影的。

这个耐心没问题，智慧不是每个人都有就是了。